I’ve been “Scrooged” with a nasty case of the
Christmas doldrums. “What does that even mean?” would fall from the lips of at
least one of my children, and how do I explain it when I can’t make rational
sense of it myself?
I understand on an intelligent level how blessed I
am with four incredibly brilliant, beautiful and talented boys, yet for the
past few years, when the calendar ominously points to December 1, my heart
sinks to the pit of my stomach.
There are reasons as to why I feel “Scrooged”,
details of my personal and family life that I don’t want to publicly proclaim.
But behind the ear-to-ear smile is a nasty case of the Christmas Doldrums.
I wasn’t going to articulate my wintry depression. But the cold weather and insane PMS has left me wrapped in my sweats, a hoodie and a cardigan, underneath my JETS throw as I watch my team, hopefully, win. And as of the 3rd quarter, the JETS are ahead of the Raiders 27 to 10. While I typed away, multi-tasking as only a woman can and desperately trying to make money with my online Web gig, I realized I have sorely neglected Life, as I see it!
I wasn’t going to articulate my wintry depression. But the cold weather and insane PMS has left me wrapped in my sweats, a hoodie and a cardigan, underneath my JETS throw as I watch my team, hopefully, win. And as of the 3rd quarter, the JETS are ahead of the Raiders 27 to 10. While I typed away, multi-tasking as only a woman can and desperately trying to make money with my online Web gig, I realized I have sorely neglected Life, as I see it!
The thing is, I always loved Christmas, the tears
that well in my eyes at Midnight Mass, the magic of Santa and the joy I have
instilled in my children that originated from that adoration and excitement.
And it doesn’t help that my birthday is six days
before. My parents were always very diligent not to make me feel gypped in any
way, shape or form. As a matter of fact, my deep love began with the story of
my birth, because I was, as my beautiful mother has always told me, her very
special Christmas baby. I was the only daughter, granddaughter, niece, sister
and female first cousin.
But we grow up, move out and have our own families
and that magic that was created for me from the love of my family has been put
aside, at my own command, and given to my sons. We must put the needs and wants over our own, and
that is ok! I don’t want a fuss, but what happens is, and if it wasn’t for
Facebook, I don’t think anyone would know about my birthday, friends forget the
day, they have their own lives, spouses work and kids are busy with school,
etc.
I will eventually move on and the spirit of
Christmas will fill my heart, even without three nightly visits of Christmas ghosts, but
for now I remain “Scrooged”.
If Santa Clause or any Christmas Angel is reading or
listening to my heart right now, all I want for my birthday and Christmas is
peace within my family and the work to support them.
Keep a smile on your face and love in your heart for
you never know how another is suffering.
Merry Christmas, yes I say Merry Christmas, it is
what I celebrate and a Happy New Year---PLEASE! To all of my Jewish friends, I
hope you had a wonderful Hanukkah.
Hopefully it won’t take me over a year to give some
love to my first blog!
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